[bugfix] fix qwen3vlmoe loading

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What does this PR do?

Fix the loading of qwen3vlmoe experts.

test script:

from transformers import AutoProcessor, AutoModelForImageTextToText

model = AutoModelForImageTextToText.from_pretrained("Qwen/Qwen3-VL-30B-A3B-Instruct", torch_dtype="auto", device_map="auto")

before:

model.language_model.layers.{0...47}.mlp.experts.down_proj    | MISMATCH | Reinit due to size mismatch ckpt: torch.Size([128, 768, 2048]) vs model:torch.Size([128, 2048, 768])  
model.language_model.layers.{0...47}.mlp.experts.gate_up_proj | MISMATCH | Reinit due to size mismatch ckpt: torch.Size([128, 2048, 1536]) vs model:torch.Size([128, 1536, 2048])

The reason is that the official checkpoint of Qwen3VLMoe follows the shape [num_experts, out_features, in_features], but in the latest code, these weights are transposed in the last two dimensions. This pr transposes them back during conversion.

The model now loads successfully after the fix. 🫡

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